Summer Storms

I'm a sucker for most forms of precipitation. And we've had some awesome rainstorms in the past two days, complete with thunder and lightning. Here's a view of one storm as seen from my bedroom window yesterday afternoon.

Field Trip

Jeesh, I've gone a long time between updates. Life is hectic, blogging is relatively low down on the list of "to-dos," blah, blah, blah.

We've had a very busy couple of weeks, but one of the highlights was a trip to the American Museum of Natural History on the Upper West Side (which we had never visited in our four years as New Yorkers). The impetus was a live butterfly exhibit that was closing just after Memorial Day. Since Emmett had recently fallen hard for The Very Hungry Caterpillar, I thought he would get a kick out a room full of butterflies. So we hauled our cabooses up to 81st and Central Park West on a hot Saturday afternoon.

The butterfly exhibit was something of an anti-climax. It was a typical New York experience: Too many people crowded into too small of a space. And I think Peter I were spoiled by the butterfly exhibit we had seen two years before at the Melbourne Zoo. However, I was impressed by this one particular butterfly who did a great job of looking like a leaf:


Emmett was only moderately interested in the butterflies but he was captivated by the rest of the museum--in particular its vast collection of taxidermied animals. Each vast hall was better than the last: Emmett would run to each animal in the room, pointing and shouting its name (or his best guess--since he hasn't been introduced to moas and ibexes yet). He was in toddler heaven.

As museums go, it is decidedly old fashioned: No buttons to push, no computers to interact with. And some of the exhibits are hilariously, determinindly stodgy. Take, for example, this exhibit, with its oh-so scintillating title "The Vegetation of Middle North America":



At one point, I muttered grumpily to Peter, "I don't think this museum would be that popular if it wasn't in New York." But as usual, my judgmental side had jumped to conclusions that were, frankly, wrong. Because it turns out that the American Museum of Natural History knows how to stuff, pose and light some impressive animals:





I'm not sure if the pictures do them justice, but those bears and moose were BIG and realistic. And we hadn't even gotten to the whale yet. It turns out that a life-sized model of a blue whale suspended from the ceiling is an awesome sight. I would post a picture, but the hall was too dark, the whale too big, and my photography skills too limited for my little automatic camera to do the scene justice.

Emmett also loved the whale and ran amok under it until he fell and ended up with some facial road rash. Despite the tears, all three of us agreed that it was an awesome day.

School stupidity

The cherry blossoms are in full pink in the Botanic Gardens and it was a glorious (if hot) weekend, but this still hasn't been the best week to be a New Yorker.

Not surprisingly, New York was one of the first places outside of Mexico to report swine flu. It hasn't been reported in Brooklyn yet, but I imagine it's only a matter of time. So far the playgrounds and sing-a-longs are still pretty crowded, but if things get worse, I wouldn't be surprised if they empty out.

In other news, as the New York Times reported today, New York parents who want to enroll their 5 year olds in public school are increasingly likely to find their child on a waiting list. New York parents are well known for their neuroticism about schools, but even I can sympathize with parents who can't get their kid into the local public school. I mean, isn't that a right you have as a tax paying citizen?

It is the school madness that makes me unwilling to consider staying in New York for the long haul. My kid is adorable and cute and all, but do I really think he needs to complete a full blown "application" to get into preschool? Do I really want to pay $20 grand to make sure he makes the very best macaroni art?

My husband and I said a long time ago that we would not stay in New York once Emmett hit school age. My increasing fondness for Brooklyn makes me waver on this vow, but then I look at the tuition and application process for preschool and I think that the Midwest looks better and better.

File that under sweet but creepy

Overheard at my son's music class where children are running amok and screeching and picking their noses:

Visiting grandmother (to no one in particular): Look at all these beautiful children...

[Beat]

... it's like a garden of babies.

Spring Beauty

Sorry for the long delay between posts. We had two weeks of dinner parties, mother-in-law visitations and Easter madness. I cooked a roast chicken for the first time. We went to an Easter egg hunt in the pouring rain (only to find out it was canceled). Emmett enjoyed his first Easter basket. (We put such Easter-y treats as Cheetos and star stickers in plastic eggs, since most typical Easter candy screams choking hazard.) A good time was had by all.

Spring is limping into New York this year. Every 60 degree day seems to be followed by a week of 45 degree drizzle. But the flowers are finally starting to emerge, which always leads me to think about the natural beauty that can be found in New York.

Given its uber-urban nature, there is plenty of concrete ugly to be found here. The United/American terminal at LaGuardia is pretty grim. Those tree-less blocks of row houses in Queens are damn unattractive. And Co-op city has a hulking, East German quality.

But New York has some oases of exquisite natural beauty--perhaps all the more attractive because they sit cheek-by-jowl with so much that is man-made. One of my favorites is the Brooklyn Botanic Gardens. I love the BBG in snow, in bloom, in mist, and in Fall. And I love it all the more now that I only live 5 blocks away. It is like having a really fancy back yard:






Next to the Botanic Gardens is Prospect Park. Like its bigger, better known cousin, Prospect Park was designed by Frederick Olmsted. Although I appreciate Central Park's wonder, I actually like Prospect Park better. It feels less crowded than Central Park (probably because there are far fewer tourists) while retaining the same wilderness-within-a-city feel. And there are some breathtaking spots:


Both parks are true "public goods" in the best sense. In a city where apartments are far too small, yards are scarce, and concrete far too common, parks are a critical necessity. And New Yorkers take their park-going amusements very seriously. On warm weekends you can observe a whole microcosm of the city living it up on the Long Meadow: urban hipsters and their hipster babies, courting Orthodox couples, soccer teams, kite fliers, dog walkers, high schoolers looking for a quiet place to make out, and weekend warriors out for a run. (I'm sure there's the occasional hooker and John also, but I've never seen them so let me enjoy my idyllic image of the park unscathed by grim realities...)

In the coming weeks, I'll try to post occasional pictures from the parks as the flowers emerge. Right now, we're on cherry blossom watch at the Botanic Gardens. There was only one tree in bloom last week, so the full glory is yet to come.

Lobbying

Emmett's babysitter asked me a few months ago if I was okay with having him play in the lobby during the cold winter months. It had never occurred to me that Emmett would want to hang out in the lobby of our building, but once he started doing it, I began to notice just how social our lobby is.

The lobby is the New York substitute for a back yard. Having grown up in the suburbs of Chicago, I would have thought that the lobby was a poor substitute. And in certain situations (a warm summer night lit by fireflies, for example) I'm sure that's true. But hanging out in the lobby with a 15 month old baby is surprisingly fun.

There are frequently other parents down there with their kids--everyone has a little cabin fever by 5 PM on a winter's evening. There is our doorman, Hector, who is always willing to have an impromtu game of peekaboo with Emmett. People are coming home from work and heading out to stock up on evening groceries.

When I was a kid, my parents made friends with our next door neighbors--George and Lois. They were an older couple with an above ground pool. On Saturday afternoons, my brother and I would swim until we were blue and pruney. And my parents would sit out on lawn chairs with George and Lois and drink "slush"--George's special, alcohol-and-ice-laden concoction. (This all makes my parents and neighbors sound like lushes which they assuredly were not.)

I am tempted to try my own rendition of slush and bring it down to the lobby to share with the other parents and nannies. I do not think that this would go over well, but I like to imagine it: Sitting on lawn chairs in the lobby drinking slush under the watchful eye of the building security cameras while the kids squabble and putter and play.

The Greatest City in the World?

One time, when we were preparing to land at Laguardia, the flight attendant gave us the usual landing instructions and then said the following: "If you're lucky enough to have a zip code here in New York City to call home, then welcome back. If not, we hope you enjoy your stay." I rolled my eyes at my husband who looked both amused and worried that I might leave my seat and clobber the flight attendant with her microphone.

Many Americans have hometown pride. My middle school friend Megan used to sign her letters: "Don't Mess with Texas." And when I was in college in Minnesota, many of my California-born classmates would wax rhapsodic about the-beauty-that-is-San-Francisco. But I have never met a more aggressive set of chauvinists than New Yorkers. In particular, they love to repeatedly remind you that "New York is the greatest city in the world."

Mind you, this is not an opinion. This is a FACT. Water=wet. Poop=smelly. New York=Greatest City in the World. Also, realize that New York (according to New Yorkers) is not only the greatest city in the United States. It is also the greatest city in the WORLD. Are you fond of Seattle? Chump. Adore Paris? Fool. Because New York is, duh, New York.

I think New Yorkers like to persistently tell you that New York is the greatest partly because they are insecure. If I constantly remind myself that I'm living in the greatest city in the world, I will feel better about spending $5000 a month on a dinky apartment that overlooks a con-ed power station and has a kitchen full of roaches.

The other thing that drives New Yorkers to indoctrinate you is provincialism. Many New Yorkers know astonishingly little about the rest of their own country. To wit, I was chatting with one of my residents on my internal medicine rotation who grew up in NYC and went to college and med school on the tiny island of Manhattan (and was now doing residency there) and he relayed this story to me:

So I'm walking down the street with my girlfriend last night and we walk by Bryant Park and they are showing a movie outside! And there are all these people there watching. And I thought: 'Oh man, only in New York.'

It was all I could do not to laugh openly. Apparently he had never been to Chicago, Washington, D.C. or L.A. Apparently, he had never seen Cinema Paradiso. And apparently he had never heard of that former bastion of rural American life: THE DRIVE IN.

Now before you decide to send me hate mail, let me remind you that I like New York. I just don't like to be told what my opinions should be. So New Yorkers, stop passing around the Kool Aid and realize that New York is the greatest city for YOU. The rest of the world can make up its own mind.